If you're not into it, then you can go about your business. Go find a timtales video if you want grunting neanderthal "real man" sex, but don't be spewing sexist bullshit all over other people's content.
I had a gay friend back in the day with a 10" bwc like that. Took lots of alcohol & lube for me to take it in my ass. But trust me, he got it in there 🤤 sadly hes not active anymore